Stop complaining or making excuses. Why you can’t move forward and get rid of what you are complaining about. NO EXCUSES. Once on the other side of what you were complaining about, you will be so happy and pushing others for their own sake to do the same. It won’t work until you are ready and believe you can do it. It will be the best thing you have ever done. Just do it! ~ Denise Hecht
Life is too short to be that miserable. In 1991 I left a 16 year mentally and emotionally abusive marriage. Consideration was paramount for my 14 year old daughter and her future. I had to have faith in myself and what my capabilities were as well. Removing myself from this cancerous relationship for the sake of both myself and my child was my ultimate goal. The decisions I made and the planning process took 10 months to achieve. However with a strong focus on a brighter future, I attained my freedom. Whilst being extremely difficult during that time and endlessly putting up with negativity on all levels from my ex husband, it was the best move I ever made. I began to breathe again and everyday found a new reason to smile – something I hadn’t done for a long time. A few years later I met a wonderful man who I later married. He treats me like a queen and provides me with security, laughter and a great deal of love and respect. He is the love of my life. My daughter is now happily married and has given me two beautiful granddaughters. You need to encourage yourself to move forward no matter how difficult the situation. Complaints and excuses don’t give you a better life. They just stunt your growth. Plan wisely and carefully and you will never look back. ~ Sue Schmarr
