You don’t hurt others. Be true to yourself (but not selfish to the detriment of others). ~ Sue Pope
If you are honestly true to yourself you can’t be dishonest with others. This is a harsh world that we live in and sometimes honesty is painful. As long as this honesty is meant to help and not hinder others there is nothing selfish about it. In fact it very often takes courage to be honest because others sometimes don’t want to face the truth and they may very well interpret your honesty as selfishness. Only you and God can make that judgement, don’t allow others to do it for you. ~ Karen Joncas